THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE

Good Morning,

I'm always being asked what's the best advice I can give someone, and have to say is to live  outside your box.  Now first you have to ask yourself what is your box, you have to sit down and figure out how you have boxed yourself into a particular rut.  Many times its the people we date, we always look for the bad boys, the artistic men, or the workaholic.  If you lined up all the men I dated, the only common denominator would be that they are all men.  I have dated outside of my race, younger and older.  There really is not that much difference, they all have some kind of issues, I picked my men based on not looks, but there had to be something I liked about you, either you were funny, sexy, fun to be with.  It didn't matter to me.  Now I've been happily married to someone of my race and not outside of my box, we are very similar, like many of the same things, but I'm not the typical african-american woman, so whoever I dated  had to be a little unconventional anyway.

So today, decide to be undecided, look around and ask yourself and maybe even ask friends "what do I always do that you thinkI could change,that would make an impact on my life".  You maybe surprised at the answer!

Enjoy it you only get one shot at your life, dont f**k it up!