LIFE IS?

Today someone asked on their facebook page Life is?, and my answer to that was Life is what you make it, to which they responded they wanted a deeper answer. Well sometimes, there is no deeper answer. Like the book "He's just not into you" well I feel maybe he isn't. Sometimes the answer is very simple, and uncomplicated.  But, we women want it to be complex or messy.  He cheated because he wanted to, not because youre fat, not because you were doing anything wrong, not because his father wasn't there, he did it because he wanted to.  We women  have to stop falling into their defense tactic of "I cheated because __________________,(add their lame excuse here). Often times there is no excuse for their bad behavior. Also according to Steve Harvey's book "Act like a lady, Think like a man" he tells you, men are just simple creatures. We make it difficult, they give us clues, send out warning signs, but we ignore them till they come back and bite us in the ass and wonder how did this happen to me.  Well it did, and we have got to stop making excuses for them and ourselves.

Start from today and, decide to be only responsible for  you and you alone!