IT'S NOT A BAD THING TO BE A BOOTIE CALL

It's not really, as long as you know you’re a bootie call. The problems arise when we think we are more than a sexual thing for that man. If we are looking at the situation through rose colored glasses and don't face up to reality, we are looking for heartache. Being a bootie call gives you some options to look at.  One your'e getting your  groove on. Secondly it can gives you time to maybe date and don't feel that you now have to jump into bed with the wannabe boyfriend. And last but not least it gives you time get  to know your knew friend. You can make being a bootie call advantageous for you, when they call make sure they bring over dinner, wine or a little something for you. Luxuriate in having good, great or awesome sex. It gives you a glow about you which is very attractive and a turn on for many men. Perhaps you don’t have time for a full-fledged relationship, you have a demanding job, small children and just need some sweat my hair out then you leave sex.  We all know what not having sex does to you and how better you feel when you’re getting it regular. It’s like medicine you need to take everyday. Now if you know you’re that type of women who will always catch feelings for whoever you sleep with DON’T DO IT, EVER. You will just make yourself crazy and get caught up in a soap opera with you as the star, which is NEVER a good thing. Also if you think you will make this into a relationship, think again. Most men if they  already have you pegged as a bootie call that’s pretty much it for you, and they rarely make the switch. They’re very good at compartmentalizing the women in their lives. If you’re the wife, you’re in the wife box, the girlfriend, in the girlfriend box and the bootie call, well you know, “And never the twain shall meet“. Own up to being a bootie call, embrace it and your sexuality. Now if you always also end up being a bootie call, you may need to sit down and re-asses yourself and figure out what are you doing to always up in a this situation.

So take a minute to give your inner sex goodness permission to be unleashed and sitback and enjoy the ride!