LIKE YOUR SELF FIRST

This concept  is not new, you've heard it all before.  But before you stop reading, ask yourself this? Are you okay dinning out by yourself? have you taken a vacation by yourself? gone to the movies by yourself? If you can't answer any of the above; then keep reading, this one's for you.  If you don't feel at ease by yourself how can you expect someone else to be at ease with you?  It may seem strange at to first go solo, you may feel everyone's staring at you, but really most people are thinking to themselves I wish I had nerve to do that. When  you get in a relationship at the first flush of love you want to be around that person ALL the time, but that does wear off.  I feel a deal breaker for any relationship would that person who  needs their partner to be by their side constantly.  It's nice to be united as one, but it should be just as nice to be a separate entity from your significant other so when you do get together you can appreciate each other a lot more.  Most men like sports and don't want to be disturbed while they're watching a game, so what should you do, (if you like sports, then great) but if not  find something that engages your interest. Get a hobby, it could be something simple like get a book list together and start reading, or take the challenge by going to the movies alone.  You can also grab a bite to eat,  take a book with you to give yourself something to do while your'e waiting for the  food to comeand  to make you appear  at ease.  I'm naturally gregarious but also enjoy being by myself.  It's very liberating and cool, so enjoy being in your skin and listening to one's self  I feel this is the time god (or whomever you believe in) talks to you. 

Once you get the alone part down to a science your partner may even start wondering what is she up to and be inclined to want to do more things together, but don't give up your ME time.  Everyone needs ME time, it will keep you sane and desirable.