I can attest to this. I have been in love 4 times and the forth time was the charm, I have been now happily married going on 5 years. I don't regret my past loves, they have all been wonderful and good men in their own right, our relationships ended for various reasons. I have been the dumper and dumbee and have no remorse about being either, both build character. Your past is the past and without it you would not be who you are. I wear my past with pride, my experiences like a favorite pin displayed on my chest for the world to see. My first boyfriend was older, had more money and willingly spent it on me. I was his PYT (pretty young thing) he flaunted me around his friends and peers like a trophy wife, and I loved every minute of it. From him I was educated on how a man should treat a women, whether it meant always holding out my chair, holding the door open or the little nuances of man with good upbringing. He taught me on what to look for in a man and have used that as a measuring stick everafter. My next boyfriend was a man of another race he taught me that being different wasn't a bad thing thing, that life was an adventure and to ride the ups and downs like a rollercoaster. He was a good boyfriend and a better friend who I could always call on for help well after we broke up. My third boyfriend was my same sign a virgo, and we were so much alike it seemed almost a little incestuous. He liked to shop, talk on the phone, he was great, we had a great time but he just wasn't ready to settle down and I had to respect that. My fourth boyfriend who is now my husband is somewhat a little of all of my past lovers all rolled into the perfect man for me. Sometimes you have to kiss many frogs to get to your prince
I met my husband a little late in life and knew he was the right one for me. So enjoy your life and all the frogs so you can appreciate and recognize your prince when he comes along, without having to kiss him first.
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