YOU DON'T WANT TO BE THAT GIRL

What girl you say? The girl with no friends, if you know any women who doesn't have any girlfriends run in the opposite direction.  We all need friends especially girlfriends, men are good to have around (can't live with them or can't live without them) but they can't really fill alot of our emotional needs, and thats where your girls come in.  Who else can you talk to on the phone for hours basically about nothing, who else can you drag to macy's for a one day sale wait on line for 3 hrs just to get that wierd blue shoe that you think will go perfect with  that  wierd blue dress.  Men are fixers, they want to hear the problem give you a solution and go about their business with the thought  that they have solved the crisis 1,2,3.  We on the hand need to pore over every detail of the situation, dissect it to death and then discuss it some more.  If you don't have girlfriends, who are sharing your problems with? who are you getting feedback from about any and everything? who are you bouncing ideas off?. But on the flip side of that you can't have friends if you don't know how to be a friend, so maybe the reason is they don't know how to be a  friend.   That will be my next blog.  Men they come and go,but good  friends are here forever.  Friends that have known you a long time are extra special, they have been with you through all you crazy situations (i.e following a cheating man), have held your hand and cried when you needed them to.  Nothing can replace a good friend.  So if you  know of a women who has no girlfriends  have pity on them, they're like infants with no emotional growth, no understanding of what they are missing.  These are the women to be careful of,  they have no understanding or regard for the sisterhood and may even go after your man when your back is turned.  They will have lame excuses such as other women are jealous of them, they're so busy they don't have time for the drama of other women, but really, its the old "its not you its me routine" well it is really them.

So look around and embrace all your girls, and realize we need friendship like we need  food and water.  They keep you sane and the benefits of good friendship is endless.